{"id":999957291,"date":"2019-06-05T18:26:19","date_gmt":"2019-06-05T21:26:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hcc.com.uy\/2018\/?p=999957291"},"modified":"2019-06-05T18:26:19","modified_gmt":"2019-06-05T21:26:19","slug":"ser-victima-o-protagonista-es-tu-propia-decision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hcc.academy.hcc.com.uy\/coach\/blog\/ser-victima-o-protagonista-es-tu-propia-decision\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser v\u00edctima o protagonista es tu propia decisi\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>{&#8220;main-title&#8221;:{&#8220;component&#8221;:&#8221;hc_title&#8221;,&#8221;id&#8221;:&#8221;main-title&#8221;,&#8221;subtitle&#8221;:&#8221;Si aceptas la premisa que \u201ctoda acci\u00f3n tiene un cometido\u201d, el punto es ver m\u00e1s all\u00e1 lo que te est\u00e1 impactando y entender su fundamento&#8221;,&#8221;title_content&#8221;:{&#8220;component&#8221;:&#8221;hc_title_base&#8221;,&#8221;id&#8221;:&#8221;title-base&#8221;,&#8221;image&#8221;:&#8221;http:\/\/2018.hcc.com.uy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/1804-1024&#215;682.jpg|1333|2000|999956259&#8243;,&#8221;breadcrumbs&#8221;:false,&#8221;white&#8221;:true},&#8221;title&#8221;:&#8221;Ser v\u00edctima o protagonista es tu propia decisi\u00f3n&#8221;},&#8221;section_5ZtkF&#8221;:{&#8220;component&#8221;:&#8221;hc_section&#8221;,&#8221;id&#8221;:&#8221;section_5ZtkF&#8221;,&#8221;section_width&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;animation&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;animation_time&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;timeline_animation&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;timeline_delay&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;timeline_order&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;vertical_row&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;box_middle&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;css_classes&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;custom_css_classes&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;custom_css_styles&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;section_content&#8221;:[{&#8220;component&#8221;:&#8221;hc_column&#8221;,&#8221;id&#8221;:&#8221;column_vtfQF&#8221;,&#8221;column_width&#8221;:&#8221;col-md-12&#8243;,&#8221;animation&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;animation_time&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;timeline_animation&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;timeline_delay&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;timeline_order&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;css_classes&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;custom_css_classes&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;custom_css_styles&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;main_content&#8221;:[{&#8220;component&#8221;:&#8221;hc_wp_editor&#8221;,&#8221;id&#8221;:&#8221;Xhugf&#8221;,&#8221;css_classes&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;custom_css_classes&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;custom_css_styles&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;editor_content&#8221;:&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"page\\\" title=\\\"Page 1\\\">\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"section\\\">\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"layoutArea\\\">\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"column\\\">\\n\\nEn oportunidades el di\u0301a a di\u0301a limita nuestra visio\u0301n; somos llevados de la nariz por la operativa y olvidamos mirar -tal como observadores- que\u0301 sucede en los sistemas globales que integramos. Mirar de manera ampliada nos permite contextualizar que\u0301 sucede en un mercado determinado, en una empresa concreta y en este sentido, co\u0301mo se van dando los acontecimientos. Si aceptas la premisa que \u201ctoda accio\u0301n tiene un cometido\u201d, el punto es ver\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"page\\\" title=\\\"Page 2\\\">\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"section\\\">\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"layoutArea\\\">\\n<\/p>\n<div class=\\\"column\\\">\\n\\nma\u0301s alla\u0301 lo que te esta\u0301 impactando -positivamente o no- y entender su fundamento. A partir de este entendimiento, podes elegir si ser vi\u0301ctima o protagonista.\\n\\nLes comparto dos situaciones. 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Cada uno desde su perspectiva e interpretacio\u0301n, esta\u0301 convencido que esta\u0301 en lo cierto; y la distancia y molestia avanzan.\\nEn el momento en que uno integre el contexto y adema\u0301s la perspectiva del otro, encontrara\u0301n valiosa informacio\u0301n para aportarse mutuamente y construir.\\n\\nEl impacto que la acumulacio\u0301n de situaciones de este estilo tienen en el a\u0301rea no es positivo para la organizacio\u0301n. Como en cada situacio\u0301n, las perspectivas son tantas como personas involucradas.\\n\\nLa otra situacio\u0301n refiere a un colaborador que se queja que no le avisaron lo que se le comunicari\u0301a a su cliente. Entonces su li\u0301der se siente indignado: \u00bfCo\u0301mo plantea esto, si estuvo en cada paso del proceso? El enojo para ambos duro\u0301 varios di\u0301as despue\u0301s del suceso.\\nImagino que recordara\u0301s situaciones similares, donde podra\u0301s distinguir que\u0301 postura asumiste.\\n\\nCo\u0301mo vi\u0301ctima, podra\u0301s quejarte y tu frustracio\u0301n te dejara\u0301 en un estado de menos recursos y lo que es peor, sin poder hacer nada para cambiarlo. Las cosas te llegan y es responsabilidad de los otros.\\n\\nEn cambio, ubicarte como protagonista, te permite ser agente de cambio para ir hacia lo que quere\u0301s.\\n\\nComo es cuestio\u0301n de decisio\u0301n y eleccio\u0301n, te comparto unos tips que funcionan para valorar la situacio\u0301n y para que decidas que\u0301 opcio\u0301n tomar:\\n<\/p>\n<ul>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Observa\u0301 lo que sucede<\/li>\n<p>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Contextualiza\u0301 la situacio\u0301n<\/li>\n<p>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Identica\u0301 tus pensamientos, tus emociones y creencias.<\/li>\n<p>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Valora\u0301 si esos pensamientos, emociones y creencias te colocan como vi\u0301ctima o protagonista.<\/li>\n<p>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Valora\u0301 la perspectiva del otro y del sistema del que se trate<\/li>\n<p>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Tene\u0301 claro que\u0301 quere\u0301s<\/li>\n<p>\\n \\t<\/p>\n<li>Identica\u0301 que\u0301 pode\u0301s hacer vos para que pase eso que quere\u0301s que pase.<\/li>\n<p>\\n<\/ul>\n<p>\\nEn el contexto actual en que diversas empresas esta\u0301n realizando cambios estructurales, \u00bfque posicio\u0301n quere\u0301s asumir? 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Mirar de manera ampliada nos permite contextualizar que\u0301 sucede en un mercado determinado, en una empresa concreta y en este sentido, co\u0301mo se van dando los acontecimientos. Si aceptas la premisa que \u201ctoda accio\u0301n tiene un cometido\u201d, el punto es ver\\n \\n \\n \\n \\n\\nma\u0301s alla\u0301 lo que te esta\u0301 impactando -positivamente o no- y entender su fundamento. A partir de este entendimiento, podes elegir si ser vi\u0301ctima o protagonista.\\n\\nLes comparto dos situaciones. En un caso, estuve reunida con una persona que entendio\u0301 que la distancia puesta por su jefe era un simple capricho que respondi\u0301a de forma inmadura a una decisio\u0301n de ella.\\n\\nCuando su jefe comento\u0301 lo sucedido, dejo\u0301 en claro que estaba dolido por lo que entendi\u0301a falta de sinceramiento de su colaboradora y en consecuencia tomo\u0301 distancia. Escuchando a cada uno, ambas versiones tienen sentido.\\n\\n\u00bfQui\u00e9n tiene la verdad? 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El enojo para ambos duro\u0301 varios di\u0301as despue\u0301s del suceso.\\nImagino que recordara\u0301s situaciones similares, donde podra\u0301s distinguir que\u0301 postura asumiste.\\n\\nCo\u0301mo vi\u0301ctima, podra\u0301s quejarte y tu frustracio\u0301n te dejara\u0301 en un estado de menos recursos y lo que es peor, sin poder hacer nada para cambiarlo. Las cosas te llegan y es responsabilidad de los otros.\\n\\nEn cambio, ubicarte como protagonista, te permite ser agente de cambio para ir hacia lo que quere\u0301s.\\n\\nComo es cuestio\u0301n de decisio\u0301n y eleccio\u0301n, te comparto unos tips que funcionan para valorar la situacio\u0301n y para que decidas que\u0301 opcio\u0301n tomar:\\n \\n \\t Observa\u0301 lo que sucede \\n \\t Contextualiza\u0301 la situacio\u0301n \\n \\t Identica\u0301 tus pensamientos, tus emociones y creencias. \\n \\t Valora\u0301 si esos pensamientos, emociones y creencias te colocan como vi\u0301ctima o protagonista. \\n \\t Valora\u0301 la perspectiva del otro y del sistema del que se trate \\n \\t Tene\u0301 claro que\u0301 quere\u0301s \\n \\t Identica\u0301 que\u0301 pode\u0301s hacer vos para que pase eso que quere\u0301s que pase. \\n \\nEn el contexto actual en que diversas empresas esta\u0301n realizando cambios estructurales, \u00bfque posicio\u0301n quere\u0301s asumir? 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This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Ser v\u00edctima o protagonista es tu propia decisi\u00f3n - HCC<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hcc.academy.hcc.com.uy\/coach\/blog\/ser-victima-o-protagonista-es-tu-propia-decision\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Ser v\u00edctima o protagonista es tu propia decisi\u00f3n - HCC\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"{&#8220;main-title&#8221;:{&#8220;component&#8221;:&#8221;hc_title&#8221;,&#8221;id&#8221;:&#8221;main-title&#8221;,&#8221;subtitle&#8221;:&#8221;Si aceptas la premisa que \u201ctoda acci\u00f3n tiene un cometido\u201d, el punto es ver m\u00e1s all\u00e1 lo que te est\u00e1 impactando y 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n n n nnEn oportunidades el di\u0301a a di\u0301a limita nuestra visio\u0301n; somos llevados de la nariz por la operativa y olvidamos mirar -tal como observadores- que\u0301 sucede en los sistemas globales que integramos. Mirar de manera ampliada nos permite contextualizar que\u0301 sucede en un mercado determinado, en una empresa concreta y en este sentido, co\u0301mo se van dando los acontecimientos. Si aceptas la premisa que \u201ctoda accio\u0301n tiene un cometido\u201d, el punto es vern n n n nnma\u0301s alla\u0301 lo que te esta\u0301 impactando -positivamente o no- y entender su fundamento. A partir de este entendimiento, podes elegir si ser vi\u0301ctima o protagonista.nnLes comparto dos situaciones. En un caso, estuve reunida con una persona que entendio\u0301 que la distancia puesta por su jefe era un simple capricho que respondi\u0301a de forma inmadura a una decisio\u0301n de ella.nnCuando su jefe comento\u0301 lo sucedido, dejo\u0301 en claro que estaba dolido por lo que entendi\u0301a falta de sinceramiento de su colaboradora y en consecuencia tomo\u0301 distancia. Escuchando a cada uno, ambas versiones tienen sentido.nn\u00bfQui\u00e9n tiene la verdad? Es probable que ninguno ya que a ambos les falta una parte para entender la perspectiva del otro e integrarla a la propia. Cada uno desde su perspectiva e interpretacio\u0301n, esta\u0301 convencido que esta\u0301 en lo cierto; y la distancia y molestia avanzan.nEn el momento en que uno integre el contexto y adema\u0301s la perspectiva del otro, encontrara\u0301n valiosa informacio\u0301n para aportarse mutuamente y construir.nnEl impacto que la acumulacio\u0301n de situaciones de este estilo tienen en el a\u0301rea no es positivo para la organizacio\u0301n. Como en cada situacio\u0301n, las perspectivas son tantas como personas involucradas.nnLa otra situacio\u0301n refiere a un colaborador que se queja que no le avisaron lo que se le comunicari\u0301a a su cliente. Entonces su li\u0301der se siente indignado: \u00bfCo\u0301mo plantea esto, si estuvo en cada paso del proceso? El enojo para ambos duro\u0301 varios di\u0301as despue\u0301s del suceso.nImagino que recordara\u0301s situaciones similares, donde podra\u0301s distinguir que\u0301 postura asumiste.nnCo\u0301mo vi\u0301ctima, podra\u0301s quejarte y tu frustracio\u0301n te dejara\u0301 en un estado de menos recursos y lo que es peor, sin poder hacer nada para cambiarlo. Las cosas te llegan y es responsabilidad de los otros.nnEn cambio, ubicarte como protagonista, te permite ser agente de cambio para ir hacia lo que quere\u0301s.nnComo es cuestio\u0301n de decisio\u0301n y eleccio\u0301n, te comparto unos tips que funcionan para valorar la situacio\u0301n y para que decidas que\u0301 opcio\u0301n tomar:n n t Observa\u0301 lo que sucede n t Contextualiza\u0301 la situacio\u0301n n t Identica\u0301 tus pensamientos, tus emociones y creencias. n t Valora\u0301 si esos pensamientos, emociones y creencias te colocan como vi\u0301ctima o protagonista. n t Valora\u0301 la perspectiva del otro y del sistema del que se trate n t Tene\u0301 claro que\u0301 quere\u0301s n t Identica\u0301 que\u0301 pode\u0301s hacer vos para que pase eso que quere\u0301s que pase. n nEn el contexto actual en que diversas empresas esta\u0301n realizando cambios estructurales, \u00bfque posicio\u0301n quere\u0301s asumir? 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Mirar de manera ampliada nos permite contextualizar que\u0301 sucede en un mercado determinado, en una empresa concreta y en este sentido, co\u0301mo se van dando los acontecimientos. Si aceptas la premisa que \u201ctoda accio\u0301n tiene un cometido\u201d, el punto es vern n n n nnma\u0301s alla\u0301 lo que te esta\u0301 impactando -positivamente o no- y entender su fundamento. A partir de este entendimiento, podes elegir si ser vi\u0301ctima o protagonista.nnLes comparto dos situaciones. En un caso, estuve reunida con una persona que entendio\u0301 que la distancia puesta por su jefe era un simple capricho que respondi\u0301a de forma inmadura a una decisio\u0301n de ella.nnCuando su jefe comento\u0301 lo sucedido, dejo\u0301 en claro que estaba dolido por lo que entendi\u0301a falta de sinceramiento de su colaboradora y en consecuencia tomo\u0301 distancia. Escuchando a cada uno, ambas versiones tienen sentido.nn\u00bfQui\u00e9n tiene la verdad? 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El enojo para ambos duro\u0301 varios di\u0301as despue\u0301s del suceso.nImagino que recordara\u0301s situaciones similares, donde podra\u0301s distinguir que\u0301 postura asumiste.nnCo\u0301mo vi\u0301ctima, podra\u0301s quejarte y tu frustracio\u0301n te dejara\u0301 en un estado de menos recursos y lo que es peor, sin poder hacer nada para cambiarlo. 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